Self-Care Foundations: Why a morning routine is important and how to create one that works for youFeb 05, 2021
Creating a morning routine is SO doable and SO worthwhile. I promise if you commit to developing a routine that works for you, you will notice a difference in your energy, presence, patience and attunement during the day. Starting your day from a grounded place and filling your cup before you make your way into the world is one of the most positive changes you can make in your life as you move towards a healthier way of being. You will notice a difference in how you physically feel and in how you emotionally show up.
So many of us wake up and bombard ourselves with what Dr. Ranjan Chatterjee calls “micro-stresses”. You snooze your alarm and wake up late...heart rate rises...then you check your email and that message from your boss makes your pulse jump...and then you race around to get you and your family ready for the day, feeling off-kilter and rushed - another micro-stress. And on and on. Each one of these brief blood-pressure-rising instances is a small stress. Each one alone doesn’t impact you too much, but keep compiling one on top of another and they will begin to add up during the day. And importantly, starting your day with a bombardment of micro-stresses means that you will reach your overall stress threshold sooner.
But it really doesn’t have to be this way. Starting your day with a morning routine that nourishes you instead of depletes you will not only remove unnecessary stress, but it will add so much health and wellbeing to your life. I know developing a morning routine feels difficult - it sure did for me. We can feel like we are way too busy to take time in the morning or that we are just too sleepy to get out of bed 20 minutes earlier - two of the ways that our mind tries to talk us out of making change.
A good morning routine will look different for everyone. So developing one that works for you might take some experimenting, and it definitely will take some reflection and tuning into what you really need - not what someone or something else told you is the right way to start your day. Some of us gain more from a slower, more easeful morning routine and some of us benefit from infusing more movement and energy from the get-go.
Let’s take a look at how you can create a morning routine that serves you. I recommend choosing one activity from each of three categories: Connection, Nourishment and Movement.
Connection refers to time with yourself to be quiet, tune in, practice mindfulness. There are many ways to do this in the morning and my recommendation is to work on Connection right after you wake up as the first part of your morning routine.
TIP: your mind will come up with a million excuses as to why you don’t have time for this or why you shouldn’t do this. Gently thank your mind for its opinion and do it anyway. This is a muscle that needs strengthening and there is a practice to just doing it, even though you might not want to. Eventually you will look forward to your time with yourself.
Connection is really about practicing mindfulness. It allows you to meet yourself where you are, observe how you are feeling in your body and start your day tuned in, rather than tuned out. This will help mitigate those micro-stresses and fill your internal cup up so that you can approach your day with more equanimity.
Here are some ideas for Connection:
- Free journal upon waking up. Write for 10 minutes about absolutely anything.
- Meditate for 10 minutes (you can use an app like Headspace or Calm to direct you)
- Journal 3 things you are grateful for
- Write down affirmations or say them out loud to yourself
- The 5 Minute Journal (amazing resource that combines several of these practices)
Movement is about moving your body in a way that nourishes you and helps get you ready for your day. For some people this will be much slower and milder and for some this will be a high-intensity work out. Pay attention to how movement makes you feel in the morning (without expectations for what you “should” be doing) and adjust accordingly.
For a long time, I thought that I “should” work out in the morning and that it “should” be high-intensity and sweaty. All the health magazines told me so. The problem was that I actually really didn’t feel well in the morning. When I worked out too hard, I felt crashed out all day at work. I would be so tired the next few days that I would miss consequent workouts, never getting into any routine. Instead of listening to my body, I was listening to outside advice that didn’t work for me.
Once I stopped forcing myself to get to bootcamp class first thing in the morning and started listening to what I actually needed - walking, yoga, hiking - I felt so much better throughout my days. I learned to listen and take care of my needs and then guess what? I actually had the energy to do some higher intensity workouts sprinkled in.
I tell this story to remind you that with all things wellness, including exercise and morning routine, it is so important that you tune in and listen to yourself. Pay attention to when a workout is not serving you and when it is.
In terms of morning routine, movement doesn’t always mean “exercise” as we think of it. It can be stretching, walking, dancing.
Here are some ideas for how to incorporate movement into your morning:
- 10 minutes of stretching
- 30 minutes of walking around your neighborhood
- Yoga (at home or go to class)
- Go for a run or a hike
- Attend a workout class
- Put some music on that makes you move and dance for 10 minutes
- Do 20 minutes of strength training at home (for example, squats, pushups, lunges, etc. There are so many amazing online resources for home workouts).
Finally, I am a huge believer in nourishing your body with real food first thing in the morning.
TIP: keep a full water bottle (at least 20 ounces) on your bedside table when you go to sleep and first thing in the morning, drink all of it. Drinking water in the morning is so important, because our bodies lose a lot of water overnight. This one change is sure to bring more energy and clarity to your day.
Again, nourishment is going to look different for every person. It is SO important that you allow yourself the time and space to sort out what works for you. Some people truly are not hungry first thing in the morning and prefer to put off eating and a lot of people could really benefit from a full meal (protein, fat, veggies) to set them on the right path.
I personally have learned that to keep my hormones balanced and my energy consistent, I need a big, healthy meal that includes high-quality protein, healthy fats and veggies within an hour of waking in the morning. This way of eating in the morning can be especially helpful for many women, while men tend to be able to fast for longer without the crash. But it is important to listen to yourself. If you are feeling a mid-morning crash or like you need lunch by 10:30am, try filling your plate up for breakfast.
Yes this takes more time! Eating real, healthy food in the morning requires more planning than stopping at the coffee shop on the way to work. It is worth it and YOU are worth it. Take time to plan out your week, do some meal prep on Sunday and learn what products and foods you like and work for you.
Here are some other tips for morning nourishment:
- For most people, I recommend a meal of protein, fat and veggies
- Skillet with sausage, kale, sweet potato and ghee
- Egg scramble with veggies, sweet potato toast and avocado
- Smoothie: low sugar fruit (like berries), coconut milk, high-quality protein powder, nut butter, and greens
- If eating before you leave the house really doesn’t feel good or you just simply are not hungry and do not notice a lack of energy, then bring food to work with you to eat mid-morning
- Drink coffee after you have eaten
- Manage sugar intake in the morning - skip bread products, sugary pastries, high sugar yogurt and granola. These just do not set you up for sustained energy throughout the day and are so hard on your system.
A couple more tips to set you up for success:
- Make a commitment to yourself. You can easily keep going without a routine, no one is keeping score here, but know that you are worth taking care of yourself as soon as you wake up. And that showing yourself that you can commit to making this change will help you improve and change in all areas of your life.
- Work with resistance. Resistance WILL come up. Your mind will come up with all of the excuses as to why you should skip it today. Acknowledge that resistance is coming up and remember why you are choosing to start your mornings differently.
- Wake up earlier and go to bed earlier. Begin by waking up 20 minutes earlier, so that you have time to sit still and move your body. If you need to go to bed 20 minutes earlier to get 7-9 hours of sleep, then do that.
- Do your morning routine before you get the rest of the house up. If you are a parent, taking 20 minutes before you get the kids up is so. worth. it. Your morning will feel less rushed, you will feel more peaceful and your kids will notice. For me (not a parent), this means I meditate, journal and eat before I get my dog out of his crate - and then we walk together.
- Finally, pay attention to how you feel throughout the day. Allow yourself to be really honest and ask, did that morning routine serve me? Did that food feel good in my body? Did that workout help me feel clear and energized, or did it leave me depleted? Be curious and listen to the answers your body gives you - and adjust accordingly. Soon you will settle on the routine that feels good and you will look forward to it!
Till next time,
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